December 17, 2025

When mind is alerted to danger: nail biting, procrastination, and other forms of self-sabotage

Why the brain sometimes turns against itself: The neuroscience of self-sabotage and survival

Neurons in the brain can make us believe in things that do not exist, anticipate our decisions, activate selectively in response to visual stimuli, and interact with one another to store the information that forms our memory.

These ideas are explored in several books by neurobiologist and science communicator Rodrigo Quian Quiroga, a researcher at the Catalan Institute for Research and Advanced Studies (ICREA) at the Hospital del Mar Research Institute in Barcelona.The enormous capacity of the central nervous system to process information, particularly visual input - allows us to predict the consequences of events around us and make decisions accordingly. This ability is considered a distinctly human trait and is essential for survival.

Self-sabotage as a warning sign

When we are nervous, we may find ourselves biting our nails, cracking our knuckles, scratching a pimple, or even lightly hitting ourselves with a pen or another object. Even when faced with an important task where much is at stake, we might procrastinate until time runs out.

According to clinical psychologist Charlie Heriot-Maitland, these behaviours stem from our survival instinct. In his book Controlled Explosions in Mental Health, he explains how the brain sometimes inflicts minor, controlled harm as a protective measure to avoid greater damage.

In essence, the brain prefers the certainty of a known, manageable threat over the risk of an unknown and potentially greater one.

Different forms of damage control

Procrastination - delaying a report, project, or crucial decision until the last moment, can function as a defence against failure, rejection, and the depression that may follow.

Perfectionism, by contrast, operates through hyper-concentration and excessive attention to detail. While this may help avoid mistakes, it exposes individuals to stress and burnout, which can ultimately lead to failure.

The same applies to extreme self-criticism, which creates a false sense of control and independence. All these behaviours arise from the brain’s need for a predictable, controllable world - one free from surprises. Situations that lack control are poorly tolerated.

An evolutionary defence mechanism

The geneticist Theodosius Dobzhansky famously stated that “nothing in biology makes sense except in the light of evolution.” This principle applies to neuronal function as well.

Humans are diurnal organisms with few physical defences. Our greatest weapon against predators has always been intelligence - the ability to analyse danger, anticipate outcomes, confront threats, or avoid them altogether. As a result, the brain has evolved to detect danger everywhere, even in situations where no real threat exists.

Our alert and threat systems, including fear, trigger neural processes that assess situations and predict outcomes. Neurotransmitters such as norepinephrine, dopamine and glutamate heighten sensory perception and neuronal activity, enabling rapid responses aimed at survival.

The cost of constant alertness

One of the major problems with self-sabotaging behaviours is that they can become self-fulfilling prophecies. Overconfidence may lead us to underperform, while fear of failure can cause us to avoid challenges we are capable of handling.

Both extremes limit growth and reinforce the very outcomes we seek to avoid.

Self-harm and adolescence

Self-harm among adolescents is more common than is often acknowledged. This includes behaviours such as cutting and other forms of non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI), typically occurring during periods of intense stress, anxiety or depression.

Such actions can be viewed as the brain accepting minor harm to avoid more overwhelming emotional pain. These painful circumstances may include sexual abuse, bullying, trauma, substance abuse, parental separation, depression, anxiety, or social isolation.

The release of endogenous opioids, such as beta-endorphins, following minor self-inflicted injury can temporarily reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression.

Autism spectrum disorder and self-harm

Children and individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) represent a distinct case. Autism is considered a risk factor for self-harming behaviours, which may include head-hitting, cutting, strangulation, biting, scratching, or hair-pulling.

As with adolescents, self-harm in some people with ASD may help regulate anxiety, cope with sensory overload (such as noise, light or smells), or manage situations that are confusing or overwhelming. In this sense, it functions as a biological coping mechanism to avoid more intense distress.

Heriot-Maitland advocates psychological therapies that reduce the need for self-harm while helping individuals face reality with less anguish and stress. Understanding the evolutionary and neurological roots of these behaviours is essential to addressing them, particularly when the problem is deeply embedded in our instinct for survival.

https://www.tribuneindia.com/news/health/when-mind-is-alerted-to-danger-nail-biting-procrastination-and-other-forms-of-self-sabotage/

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